Yet again, Valentine's Day becomes a curse for me.

**Dragona** · 02-15-2009

Ya think it being near Valentine's Day, I would have some good luck. But no, instead it backfires on me that left me in a temporary state of depression.

It was a Friday, and I was at school. I made a couple of plans for myself on how to confess my likeness to a certain girl at school. It's basically one of my best friends I've known for 2 years. the day before Friday, I snuck in a couple of gifts into her locker for Friday, some chocolates and a dog plushie (Girls love cute things, so I thought.).

But then I found out something distracting before Friday hit. I heard that she was already going out with another guy, with a new friend I just recently met. I figured it was just a false rumor, and I didn't let it bother me. I mean, honestly, who would go out with a guy that they've only known for a month, right?!

Wrong. I found out that the rumor was true. So when my friend got to school, I asked her if she was really going out with this guy. She only stood there, with her back turned, and said "Sorry...". I didn't know what she meant by that, since it wasn't a simple yes or no.

After homeroom began, I was given a card, and a couple of my other friends were given cards by that special female friend of mine. But what struck me the most awe, is that the guy she was going out with... She gave him a big fancy pop-up card.

I later then find out that everything was true...

...I left school early due to depression, I was just too in shock.

**King Dorkadee** · 02-15-2009

Thats very sorry to hear. I wish you better luck in the future. I never lost any girl friends so I can't connect to it. My Valentines Day gone VERY well btw.

**Giga Bowser** · 02-15-2009

Aw man.......I really hate to hear that. My Valentine's Day gone overall well.

**secretchaos1** · 02-15-2009

VERY well King Dorkadee? Wanna spill some of the details for us? lol.

Really sad to hear that dude, but like you said she's only known him for about a month. He might turn out to be a real jerk or something, and you might still be able to get your chance. Let time play out for a little bit, and don't just lose all hope like that.

**King Dorkadee** · 02-15-2009

Well well well, if it isn't secretchaos1 again since the thread called King Dorkadee's stupid story. Try looking at the thread called "hows life goin" and you'll find out why my life is going VERY well.

But Dragona, something in the future will change what bad thing has happened to you recently.

**Hells Guardian** · 02-15-2009

Welcome to my fucking world dude......... That's the kinda shit I've lived through for most of my life. if I wasn't too late I was in for a hell of a lot of heart ache down the road. Every girl that I've actually gone out with either cheated on me or simply used me for my money....... So yeah welcome to my fucking world........ Hell there was one girl I had met and wanted to ask her out and the day I was going to I come to find out that just the night before she started dating one of my friends........ So yeah been there hurt through that. Trust me It's better to just let it go.

**Giga Bowser** · 02-15-2009

Whoa.. I hate it when I always have bad times. How can you, HG, live through this shitty life?(I make myself get better by looking at Giga Bowser or doing situps.)

**Hells Guardian** · 02-16-2009

Because man I am to damn stuborn to let this damn life drag me down and take me out.... As long as I'm still able to stand on my own two feet I will always fight to hold my ground. They say that to show ones pain is weakness. This is false To let others see you hurt takes real strength. To avoid letting others see you hurt is simply foolish pride. To just break down and give up because things get hard Is to be weak. To fight through the pain and push your body and mind beyond the limits that they have is to show true strength.Just because You are hurt does not mean you are weak.

**Giga Bowser** · 02-16-2009

Yes that is true...this kinda reminds me of the Invictus poem.

**Hells Guardian** · 02-16-2009

Never heard of that........ Or might have but didn't care........

**Giga Bowser** · 02-16-2009

That's what I thought. VERY old peom.

**King Dorkadee** · 02-16-2009

Hey HG, how do you come up with this stuff? I think thier very smart in a way.
Also, loseing a girlfriend is very sorry to hear....I mean it.

**Nayr** · 02-16-2009

Originally Posted by Dragona

Ya think it being near Valentine's Day, I would have some good luck. But no, instead it backfires on me that left me in a temporary state of depression.

It was a Friday, and I was at school. I made a couple of plans for myself on how to confess my likeness to a certain girl at school. It's basically one of my best friends I've known for 2 years. the day before Friday, I snuck in a couple of gifts into her locker for Friday, some chocolates and a dog plushie (Girls love cute things, so I thought.).

But then I found out something distracting before Friday hit. I heard that she was already going out with another guy, with a new friend I just recently met. I figured it was just a false rumor, and I didn't let it bother me. I mean, honestly, who would go out with a guy that they've only known for a month, right?!

Wrong. I found out that the rumor was true. So when my friend got to school, I asked her if she was really going out with this guy. She only stood there, with her back turned, and said "Sorry...". I didn't know what she meant by that, since it wasn't a simple yes or no.

After homeroom began, I was given a card, and a couple of my other friends were given cards by that special female friend of mine. But what struck me the most awe, is that the guy she was going out with... She gave him a big fancy pop-up card.

I later then find out that everything was true...

...I left school early due to depression, I was just too in shock.

Actually a lot of girls go out with guys they've known for less than a month. Once my sister started dating a guy a day after she met him.

Also girls are a dime a dozen. You'll find another girl or eventually the girl you like will break it off with the dude and you'll have your shot.(Just remember to have protection if you get lucky.)

**Hells Guardian** · 02-16-2009

I'd rather have lost a girlfriend than loosing my best friend...... Either way shit happens Life goes on. I suppose I just have an outlook on the world that most would never really see. I don't just pull my words from my ass mind you. It's true life experience that gives me the wisdom I have. In the 20 years I've been alive I've lived through more than most people do in an entire life time. Most of this was because I wasn't always a very bright person.......... I was in and out of juvi and I've also lived through more enjoyable and proud moments........ Either way enough about my life story lol. Let's just say I've been through a lot.

**ricky23i** · 02-16-2009

Originally Posted by Hells Guardian

I'd rather have lost a girlfriend than loosing my best friend...... Either way shit happens Life goes on. I suppose I just have an outlook on the world that most would never really see. I don't just pull my words from my ass mind you. It's true life experience that gives me the wisdom I have. In the 20 years I've been alive I've lived through more than most people do in an entire life time. Most of this was because I wasn't always a very bright person.......... I was in and out of juvi and I've also lived through more enjoyable and proud moments........ Either way enough about my life story lol. Let's just say I've been through a lot.

Bro, if your friend didnt respect Bros before Hoes he is shit.

**Clover** · 02-16-2009

Wait till they break up and catch her on the rebound.

For valentines day i was asked out by 3 guys i know. And now i have 3 dates for the next week or two.

And if any of them are well mannered, they might get a second date.

See this is where it's different for teens and adults.
When you go out with someone as a teen, you're automatically boyfriend and girlfriend.
When you get older, you go out with someone to decide if you want them to be your boy/girlfriend.

FFS when teenagers are "going out" with each other, they dont actually go out.
When i go out on a date with someone, it literally means i go out.. on a date.
And that doesn't make them my girlfriend or boyfriend after 1 date. not even after 2 dates.
You aren't bound by those rules until you go "with" someone.
"With" someone means, you're seeing them. More than just casual dating, but less than going steady.

So you can go out with multiple people, and date multiple people, if you aren't going steady or if you haven't gotten serious at all. And if any of them have a problem with it, just remind them they have competition.

Teenage dating *sigh*
Everyone says the same thing, it's just puppy-love, preparing you for when you're older. But holy crap do you guys got it all wrong.
If you guys knew how dating really works, you wouldn't freak out over it.
If one date goes bad, you can try again, or move on. But i mean an actual date. Not just hugs in a hallway or talking on the phone.
I mean dinner and/or movies. Get to really know the person. See what kind of person they are.
Hell if two teenagers want to go out, that's basicly all they do, kiss and hug and talk on the phone. Maybe hang out at the mall. But none of this is serious. Even teenage sex isn't serious. Doing it out of horomones, not out of love.

My rules of dating are. And the various stages of adult dating.
If they are nice, they are allowed one date.

First date: If the date goes well then a second date. If the date goes bad because he/she was nervous, they are allowed a do-over. If the date goes bad for poor manners or any other similar reasons, then that's it. It's over.

Second date: If date goes well and i feel comfortable with this person, then third date. If it goes bad, see above.

Third date: If it goes well, semi-steady. "be seeing that person" as in i'm not allowed to date others. If it goes bad, see "first date".

Seeing someone: Means going out, having fun. Affectionate, but not yet "In love"
Everyone else is off limits on both sides.
Sex is completely up to me. I can offer it, but if asked the answer will always be no. (They need to know i'm in charge)

Steady: Actually in love with the person. Usually this takes a few weeks, or even months before i'm willing to go steady.
The person i'm going steady with gets certain privlages. They can spend the night when ever they want, and can actually ask for sex. Where previously the answer is automaticly no, the answer can now be yes, or i will allow myself to be coarsed into it.

Serious: Same as steady, happens after a year or so. But we can move in together. After this is marriage.